Sorry but this is an emotional one for me…
This morning I had a phone call at 7:03am from my Dad. Dad doesn’t usually ring at this time of the morning, so I immediately thought something was wrong… it unfortunately was. My amazing Nan had passed away last night suddenly but peacefully. She was, as always, next to her beloved husband – my Pa. These two had been together for more than fifty years, and had the best relationship I have ever known. They laughed at each other, laughed with each other and laughed at their kids and grandkids. Always laughing.
Nan was known to drop a few swear words in her time and we used to have a competition to see who could make her say the ‘f’ word first. My sister Carly has the record set at 17 seconds. Looks like you win Carls. This is how she was – just a bundle of joy and ridiculously fun to be around. She coped so much flack from all her boys, but it was all in the name of fun. I will miss her wit and humour amongst all that made her such a beautiful person.
So I thought I’d give her a bit of a tribute today. My Nan. The best Nan anyone could ever ask for.
I had the chance last year to take some photos of my Nan and Pa at the beach, which I believe is the single most important shoot I have ever done in my life so far. With all the gear I have floating around, this shoot was simple, and so effective. It didn’t involve concepts, art directors, retouchers, hired gear, assistants or make-up artists. It involved only two things – the people you love, and a camera. Simple.
I guess I’ve had a chance to think about this a lot today and these photos are now invaluable to me. At the time, I just thought it was fun going and shooting my grandparents… but now these photos have a whole new meaning. They are now a collection of memories, and a snap-shot of my Nan’s life. No-one could ever give me a price high enough for these shots, and I will be putting these photos into archive storage. A shock passing away of a family member is a great reminder that YOU SHOULD go out and take more photos of the people you love. Give in to the pressures of every day life, and get out there and take more shots. Ring your grandparents if they’re still around and take their photo. Setup a family portrait and cherish it. I once heard a saying “memory cards are cheap, why delete shots?”. I nearly couldn’t find these shots today, but they were hidden in a backup folder on one of my hard-drives. So happy I stil have them.
Anyway – here’s to my beautiful Nan. Love you and miss you so much already. Swear all you like now you silly ol duck xxx



